Days like today are always a struggle for our children. Please pray that they would again be reminded of this promise:
Psalm 68:5 “He is a father to the fatherless, defender of widows— this is God, whose dwelling is holy.”
We are thankful for the volunteers and staff that share the love of a father.
Dear Love in Action Community,
I often have people say to me, “If only I would have known, I would have helped”. It’s quite possible those very words have come out of your mouth at one time or another.
It’s for that very reason I am writing today to communicate our needs to you. And more importantly, maybe this is the time you can help.
The entire Love in Action team has been working extremely hard at providing the best way we can for all our children. We have made tremendous strides with our on campus school in providing not only an education, but also individual attention with tutoring when needed. We have heard from many of you encouraging words of the progress and improvements you have seen from our organization and the difference in the children. But none of it could have happened without your support!
As you are all aware, we have recently had some large projects sponsored by local charities and donors. We are extremely grateful for this support as the need was great, and LIA simply is not in a position to cover the repair and maintenance of very old structures. We have realized that the “good news” of these projects brings assumptions to the community that LIA has plenty of funds for our daily operations. I want to stress and communicate to you that is just not case.
Currently LIA is in dire need of monthly finances for our general operations’ budget, which includes salaries and day-to-day expenses such as food, electricity, etc. As you can imagine, our staff salaries are our largest expense. But without good staff, our children do not receive the care and attention they need.
And now you know the basis for my asking you to make the decision to help. We not only need one-time donations, but also would love to have our donors set up recurring monthly donations. It would help us manage our finances and alleviate the stress of wondering how LIA is going to make it through another month if we had a better base of donations coming in regularly. No amount is too small!
There are two ways to donate: You can do so in person at LIA. (Please give your donations directly to our Director of Administration, Dalia Zepeda. She will provide you with a receipt.) Or you can give simply and quickly on our secure site! On the website you will be given the option of which specific fund you would like your donation to go toward. You can also set up a recurring donation. Immediately after your donation is processed you will receive a tax-deductible receipt via e-mail.
I am more than willing to provide any specific financial information or reports per your request if you want to see where and how our funds are being spent.
We cannot do this work without this incredible community. Thank you for your consideration and more importantly, for “Putting your love into action”!
Sincerely,
Kari Romey
Treasurer
Love In Action hosted an Open House event on November 22nd to honor our donors and celebrate the completion of “House #4!” The house was totally renovated thanks to donor, Geoffrey Kay, who generously funded the project, making these much needed renovations to this living area possible.
Geoffrey Kay was presented with a certificate from Love In Action, and was given the honor of performing the official ribbon cutting, which ceremony capped off the dedication of the new building.
At that same event, the “Sonrise Chapala Rotary Club” presented Love In Action with a check for $22,500 to provide funding for our next renovation project, slated for House #3. This much needed renovation will address the urgent needs for improvements in our building which houses girls ages 10-18 years old. The building was close to becoming uninhabitable due to dilapidated conditions in the ceiling, walls, floors, and restrooms.
When it is completed, House #3 will be 100% occupied by a house parent, 8 girls, and 4 teen girls who are “transitional age” – those who are older than 18 but still need support while continuing their education. These girls will have their own room in the newly renovated house. The project will also convert some existing space into a “Community Room” that will be used for multiple purposes. We will be able to provide a space where the children can come to use computers for completing their homework (which gives excellent training for their futures). The space will also contain tables for board games, a recreational area for table tennis and foosball, as well as a TV that can be used for movie nights and for training purposes.
Additionally, we will be able to use this space for Campus Wide Weekly Family Meetings, training for our staff and volunteers, and a general large meeting space. The upstairs of the building will be converted into two private psychologists’ offices and one group therapy room. Construction is scheduled to begin on January 6th of 2015 and is expected to take six weeks.
Love In Action is so grateful to our donors and supporters who are making LIA such a safe and livable place for our children who call this Center their home.
READ ALL OF OUR CURRENT NEWS IN OUR NEWSLETTER: LIA-NEWSLETTER-1214
We would like to thank Radio Mujer 1040 A.M. “Lenguaje del Corazón” for allowing Love in Action to speak about the orphanage. The interview was a very rewarding experience for Anabel and Dalia.
[fblike]Teens from Love in Action recently had the opportunity to participate in a reforestation campaign for “El Bosque de Centinela,” a community event sponsored by Guadalajara radio station, “Los 40 Principales.”
Teens and staff from Love in Action traveled to nearby Zapopan, where they worked alongside other volunteer groups to plant trees. Their collective efforts resulted in the planting of 80 new trees for El Bosque de Centinela.
The event began at 8am and was scheduled for completion by 1pm. However, the girls were so motivated in their work and planted so many trees that the organization literally ran out of trees for them to plant, and the entire job was finished by 11am.
The girls enjoyed the activity so much, they hope to be able to do it every year. They expressed how they loved helping to plant the trees and how it made them feel good to give back.
One of the most beneficial aspects of the experience was demonstrating to the kids the importance of community service — a principle amplified by the reward of seeing the tangible and lasting results of their work. In addition, sponsors hoped to promote and emphasize the universal importance of caring for the environment.
Love in Action is grateful to the dedicated staff at el Bosque de Centinela for providing this learning opportunity in environmental awareness, and to the team at Los 40 Principales radio station for inviting the teens to be part of such an educational and rewarding experience.
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Many, many thanks to our friend Sonia Stauffer, who was so kind in volunteering her time and talent as a designer, to help us redesign the Love in Action logo!
Many thanks to Fritz Liedtke for updating our website, and populating it with his beautiful photography!
You can see more of his work at:
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LOVE IN ACTION
Simple Deeds Make a Big Difference
I will be moving to Ajijic in June 2010. My sister and brother-in-law already live there. Moving into a new phase of life, without the daily rhythm of a career or the close family and friends, brings the challenge of filling the time meaningfully. There are only so many hours that you can spend at the market, on the golf course, on the tennis courts or dining with friends! One thing that has really impressed me about Ajijic is the commitment of the ex-pat community in charity efforts. This is undoubtedly a very positive side effect of having untapped human resources with time, skills and money, and a value set focused on giving back to the community and helping others.
One of my biggest advantages in having a relative already living there is that she can do all the research for me in a number of areas, including meaningful activities. It was through my sister, Elaine, that I learned about Love in Action (LIA), a center that cares for children and needs not only the money of sponsors but also the valuable time of volunteers and the enthusiasm of godparents who can provide affection and warmth to the children.
Love in Action was established when Anabel Frutos began to provide breakfast to the children in her neighbourhood in 2001, after finding out that they attended school without eating. LIA became an official center in 2003. The Mexican government places children who have been abused or are in high risk environments with the center so that they have a safe haven. The center now cares for 62 children ranging in age from 1 to 18. They are victims of abuse, abandonment, violence, and negligence or very low income homes. In Mexico it is not necessarily the case that all children are accepted into school. There is a cost element attached to this (registration fees and uniforms), and as a consequence some children never get the chance to get proper schooling. If a family is poor, then they might only be able to pay the registration fees once the child is a bit older and if they have several children this may not happen at all. It is important to give them new goals, a sense of security and hope so that they can make more out of their future than what their parents did.
Some people may have the impression that Love In Action is not in need of the money because of the new center that was purchased. The truth is that this center, purchased through two large donations and the proceeds from a fund raiser earlier in the year, is much more costly to maintain and there are now 25 more children than at the old center. Other additional expenses have cropped up, such as an unexpected tax bill and outstanding water bills. Ongoing expenses are estimated at US$120.00 per month as the cost per child to cover the cost of schooling, clothes, food, care, medication and a portion of the overhead (water and electricity).
Currently there are 6 paid employees at Love in Action and 45 volunteers. The paid jobs are secretary, psychologist, two teachers who tutor in the evenings, a maintenance man, and a cook for breakfast and lunch. The majority of volunteers are ex-pats, however, some key roles are fulfilled by local Mexicans volunteers. They act as house parents and their “pay” is room and board. Duties of house parents are to be in charge of educating children in how to keep their area clean, help with homework, cook dinner, wash the clothes. (By the way, if someone would volunteer to take on the task of doing the laundry, this would allow the house mothers more time to focus on the children.) Boys only stay at the center up to the age of 8 and after that are sent to an all-boys center. In the boys’ dorm there is a father, mother and two sons. The 18 year old son is a tremendous help as a chauffeur and he runs errands and acts as a big brother for the boys. The intent is to give the boys a stable idea of what a family is really like and the nice aspect of having a male in the family, who they can look at as a role model. As a result of many fathers leaving their wives and children, a warped perception of family pervades. By giving them exposure to an intact family, the boys have a better sense of what it is supposed to be like. There are three women who act as house mothers in the girls’ dorm, separating the duties based on the age of the children: a single mom with 3 children of her own helps and assists the house mother in the nursery (0-5 year olds); a married woman, with children, manages the 6 to 10 year olds and Anabel (the founder and director) has the 11-18 year olds.
The Director (Anabel), Assistant Director (Dina), Fund Raiser head and Treasurer are all volunteers, as well as the people who do the financials. Language is a barrier for some who would like to volunteer for administrative tasks because all correspondence is in Spanish.
Many of the volunteers provide educational programs such as dance class, arts and crafts, embroidery, computer skills, music and English. There is also a librarian, a doctor who donates his time twice a week, a nurse who helps him, and some people bring a lunch on Monday. There is also the Loving Arms program, made up of retired women who act as grandmothers for the children and giving them hugs, looking over the little ones and playing with them. This grandmotherly warmth and affection has had a very positive impact on the children. There are also volunteers active in the Club de Niños which reinforces the pre-school lessons, teaching them colors, shapes, sizes and numbers as well as singing songs, drawing, and giving the children a snack. This is a two hour program on Mondays and about 6 people work with approximately 8 children, so each one almost gets individual attention.
There is an excellent sponsoring and godparenting program at Love In Action, which was established in November 2008 and has grown rapidly. The center not only needs money, it also needs the time of people and that’s when the godparenting comes in. The expectation is that the godparents will take the child out for a day on the weekend and show them something other than what they experience at the center. This contact helps the children to feel a connection and develop their social skills. Currently there are 41 sponsors including godparents. Of that total number, 19 are strictly sponsors, so they do not visit the children because they are out of the country. The remaining 22 sponsor one and sometimes two children.
The children get so much out of having a sponsor. Of course, people are usually very generous and provide the children with gifts of clothing or toys. More importantly though is the attention that they shower on the children. The opportunity for them to get to go out and do activities they have not been able to do before is really something special for the children.
Of course, sponsors also derive benefits from the program. Basically it boils down to a love for children and fulfilling the desire to provide the children with a good education and an opportunity to live a better life. The sponsorship, no matter whether time or money, is extremely valuable for all concerned. Godparents pay Mexican Pesos 1,500 for a year and also give of their time. Perhaps this would be something that you could commit to. Think about it and call Love In Action or visit their website for more information (www.loveinactioncenter.org )
Understandably, not everyone can afford the added expense of a sponsorship or might not feel that they would have the patience and energy to be a godparent. There are other ways that you can help. Buying basic food staples and bringing them to the center is a huge help and relieves some of the financial burden. There is a list of what is needed besides food. Please remember that every little bit helps; the helping is the important part.
More volunteers are needed to help provide additional activities for the children, which could range from reading stories, teaching them a musical instrument, teaching them a sport or helping them with a school subject. It is also a goal to be able to extend help to these children into their university years. (they want them to succeed and do something with their lives and not repeat the mistakes)
When I was speaking to Dina and she mentioned the fact that there have been newborns in the nursery, it piqued my curiosity and I asked for more details. She told me a few heart wrenching stories that I’d like to share with you. Many of the children come to the center from women who have had children from 3-4 different men and the new man treats the children terribly. About one and a half years ago LIA received their most recent newborn. A mother had abandoned her four children: an infant boy 1 month old, a 6 year old and 3 year old box and a one year old girl. A neighbor heard a baby crying and investigated and discovered they had been left by themselves for a full week! The eldest had done everything in his power to take care of his siblings and was so stressed by the situation that he broke out in hives from head to toe and had to be taken to the hospital. A big problem was that each of the four children were from different fathers and the grandparents only wanted to take their own grandchild, if they came forward at all. Two of the grandmothers were allowed by the state to take the two eldest boys. Because the paternity suits were held in Guadalajara, the children were moved to a different home and the two youngest are still there. The good news is that the 6 year old is doing well.
There was another case of a 1 month old little girl who was abandoned with her four siblings in July 2008. The mother is now pregnant again! Child Protective Services contacted the center to say that five children were abandoned and needed a place. At the time the boy, Javier, was 5. His four sisters were 1 month Yuliana, Fatima was 1, Claudia was 7 and Aracelli was 10. They all have godparents, except Javier.
The key challenges in running the home are meeting the monthly budget and keeping the volunteers. One huge impact on the number of volunteers is the fact that some people only stay in the Chapala area for half of the year. Also, many volunteers leave for vacation or the holidays -Thanksgiving and Christmas are the typical times when they go back to US or Canada and stay longer. The impact is that a program is started, then stops and the center is not always sure when or if it will restart.
Love In Action’s goals are focused on giving the children more than just a place to live. It’s just as important to prepare them for the future by providing them with a skill which will give them an advantage over others when they go out into the workplace. LIA has some success stories to tell. Jocelyn had never attended school when she entered the center at the age of 9 and was then able to advance three grade levels in one year. She is now at the proper grade level for her age. Angelica has cerebral palsy and was dragging herself on the floor when she arrived at the center almost 5 years ago. Now she walks with a walker and is able to communicate verbally.
Written by Collette Clavadetscher
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